As the most isolated population center on the entire planet, the Hawaiian Islands are incredibly unique in everything from our scenery and land formations to our culture and common quirks. And while not everyone is the same, there are a few things you should know about dating someone from Hawaii. Let’s dive in.

1. They will teach you the true meaning of “Aloha.”
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2. They don’t like drama. Hawaiians are all about that laid-back lifestyle.
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3. They don’t care about the way you dress. No fancy clothes or makeup required — slippahs and swimsuits are all you need here.
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4. They will take you to all of the best places — beaches, hiking trails, restaurants, romantic spots, etc.
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5. They know how to show you a good time — whether that includes a lazy day at the beach or a wild night on the town.
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6. You will notice that their vocabulary has started to rub off on you — you will start to use Hawaiian words without realizing it, and before long, you’ll be throwing up shakas on a regular basis.
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7. You will be expected to be outside — a lot. And you must have a pretty hefty sense of adventure to keep up with your Hawaii lover.
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8) You must be willing to try new foods — like spam musubi, a loco moco, and malasadas, just to name a few.
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9. They will break out their sweaters at 70 degrees in the “winter,” and you shouldn’t laugh at them, because after living here long enough, you might be right there with them.
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10. They will most likely have a silly side, and will constantly try to make you smile or laugh. Luckily, humor is important to us in a relationship.
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11. They will call it the “mainland” and their knowledge of United States geography might not always be complete, or accurate.
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12. They will work their butt off — and so will you if you move to Hawaii, because let’s face it, these islands are pretty expensive. But with hard work, comes lots of play, too.
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13. You must know how to swim, and enjoy the water. Otherwise, what are you even doing in Hawaii?
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14. They will quickly make you feel like a part of their “ohana.” Cue a warm and fuzzy feeling.
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15. When the time comes, you won’t want a destination wedding, since you can get married in your own backyard! There's a reason so many people fly to Hawaii to get married!
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Have you ever fallen in love with someone from Hawaii? How did you feel about dating someone from Hawaii? Have you found any of these things to be true? Tell us about it in the comments — and cheers to your hopefully happy ending in the Aloha State!

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Hawaii Locals

Megan Shute | August 24, 2020

Why do you say Hawaii locals instead of Hawaiians? 

Simply put: not everyone who lives in Hawaii is Hawaiian. Unlike those who call any other American state home, Hawaiian does not identify someone who merely lives in a state but rather a race of people. Only those with native Hawaiian ancestry are referred to as Hawaiians. Everyone else is a Hawaii local or kama'aina, translating directly to mean "child or person of the land."

What are the people of Hawaii like?

Hawaii locals are absolutely incredible, with few exceptions, of course. In Hawaii, the Aloha Spirit runs deep and the locals are laid-back, happy, and barely stressed. They also love the beach, local food, and exploring spots hidden from tourists. Bottom line: those who call the Hawaiian Islands home are the best people you will ever meet.

What are some of the most common misconceptions people have about Hawaii?

Because the Hawaiian Islands are so removed from the rest of the world — after all, the Aloha State is the most isolated population center in the entire world — many people have misconceptions about the people who live here and the islands themselves. Contrary to popular belief, people from Hawaii do more than surf, spend time at the beach drinking Mai Tais, and playing the ukulele in our Hawaiian shirts. For specific examples, you might want to read about the 10 Stereotypes About Hawaii That Need To Be Put To Rest Right Now.

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